Happy birthday SINGAPORE!!!

I am back to blog again. Anyway this post is very important. I am going to tackle the problem that has always lain dormant in my heart. For the first time ever in my whole life, I am going to said this out loud.


I LOVE SINGAPORE!!!


There I said it.


And it’s not because of the upcoming national day, the reason is because I have finally clear my thoughts on what’s really good and what’s just a fiction of what reality keeps dangling in front of me.


Friends that know me know that I always have a lifelong dream to leave Singapore because I think that Singapore sucks. Typically, I have always believed that the grass is always greener on the other side.


Yes, when you can’t grasp something you like, and you keep on looking over the fence, with people, media and all sorts of shit trying to convince you that life on the other side is good.


Sure, how many times you think that you can get saved by a pretty blonde when you are going to fall down the stairs, or after you fell down the stairs, you landed in the arms of a pretty, sexy brunette.


Ever notice that the women who walk on the streets in the movies are always hot sexy young things? Ever notice that everything on the street is perfect when you are watching the movie or TV? No dangling signs no overturn trash cans, no cat peeing on the streets. Hell, there’s isn’t even any cat prowling on the street.


Talk about picture perfect.


That’s why people always think that the grass is greener on the other side. Have they ever wondered for a moment that they shouldn’t be looking at how green the grass is on the other side, they should be looking for any vipers / snakes amongst the grass.


My topic for today is for people who think that escaping Singapore to foreign countries is better than staying at Singapore. Technically, it’s about immigration.


People who immigrate for just reason, I shall now comment. It’s understandable. Just reason meaning for jobs, for family, for starting wedding.
But I will from now on look down on people migrating just because they think that a western society is better, they are tired of staying in small tiny Singapore, they want to experience the four seasons, they feel that American or any other countries’ citizenship is better than Singapore.

Hi everybody, reality checks.


Singapore is the only country that does not get any natural disasters, the worst we ever had is the stupid fog because some countries like burning down their trees.


That’s one.


Singapore is one of the top 5 countries that you can walk alone at night anywhere and not get raped, kidnapped and robbed. Well, not 100%, but at least 90%. Ask any new Yorkers, who dare to walk inside New York Central Park at night, it’s an open invitation to get robbed.


That’s two.


Singapore is the only country that allows such a diversion of race. No other place, I believe, can offer such a variety of race living together in harmony. Where else can you find Indian, Malay, Chinese, western, Japanese, Korean, heck, sometimes even Greece, Italian, Germany food in one small coffee shop easily accessible just underneath where you stay. Where else can you find multiple races and country stalls all in just one part of a small neighbourhood? Where else can you find so many different kinds of religion, language and races staying together without riots? By looking at other countries, just having 2 different religions in their country is enough to start wars, large scale riots.


That’s three.


Singapore, as a country, is one of the few lowest tax rates in the world. I am lazy to search through all my files to furnish the proof. You can search this easily in the net.


That four.


3 strikes and you are out.


Due to my overwhelming generosity, I have given you 4 strikes.


I still have lots and lots of other reason, but if I list all of them down, it will be like a mini story book.


Always remember this, when looking over to the grass on the other side that is greener, check for snakes amongst the grass. If you think that you can handle the snakes there, by all mean go over. Don’t run back crying.


If you are looking over and saw that the grass is greener on the other side, stop and think for a while, is those people on the other side looking over and thinking that the grass is greener on your side?


You are dying to leave Singapore; people are dying to come Singapore.


To my future wife
If you love me, you must love Singapore too
R

How to drive like a pro.

It’s been like freaking freaking freaking freaking long since I last touch my blog.


Anyone miss me?


I guess no one.


In fact, I think I heard the groans that I have started to update my blog again.


Well, whatever.


This past 3 months had been hell for me man. A collection of good and bad events, let’s see.
First, I got into an accident which isn’t even my fault. I parked my car at my home car park, went up to sleep, the next day I come down, I saw the car wrecked. That’s bullshit. Guess what, the dammn repair cost comes up to almost 2.5k. Go eat shit man.


Second, I pass my driving license. Erhhhhh, shouldn’t this be the first? That’s another different story. Save it for next time.


Third, I drive my company pick-up and guess what happen. I forget to check the water level and add water, and so guess what, my radiator pipe burst, and I stall my car in the extreme right lane of PIE. Even better, there is a police car right behind me. And the best part of all, I never display my probation plate.


Wonderful day.


Do I have a happy ending?


Oh yes, I do have a happy ending. The radiator pipe somehow affect the engine and the engine stalls, and the pick-up needs a complete engine overhaul, which technically means I have no vehicle for the next 2 weeks or so.


Fourth, Ok, I got my pick-up back, I was driving on PIE Tuas, going to exit near Lornie Rd. I need to pass my site supervisor some drawing. I pick up my phone, punch the number and put the phone on speaker. Guess what, Traffic police pull up beside me and ask me to go on the road shoulder. HOLY SHIT, I didn’t know that you can’t even put the phone on speaker. Now I have to speak with the Traffic police IO and my case is still pending. Using hp while driving = 12 demerits point + SGD 200 fine + Court case (Maybe) + hp got confiscated by TP.


Well, I do have a wonderful past few months behind me.


Lovely.

Maybe i Shouldnt Drive

Change my Luck

R

Life is never like a Fairy Tale,i haven't get emo for a long long time.

I am going try something new.


I have seen so many people dedicating their blog post to this guy, this girl, their dog, their cat and even their guinea pig, misses Xiao Hei, smelly smelly black guinea pig.


So today, as an exception, I am going to dedicate this post to someone I know, obviously.


Anyway, it is some of my innermost feelings, and it is real Emo. I am not kidding.


Besides, I don’t even know whether she will come to my blog or not. I just pray to god that if she only comes to my blog once in her lifetime, she would come right after I post this post.


Who is she? She will know that this post is dedicated to her once she read it.


Ok, here goes. Be forewarned, it is really Emo. I brainstorm this post for the last 5 seconds, so I do not have any time to filter out any stuff. You are warned.


“Hi dear, I still miss you by the way, not so much now, but still misses you. You know how ironic is that last time when I start working, I keep on saying that I have no time, no time for you, how I keep saying wait for me for 6 months, get everything settled down? Well, life certainly has a way of making me eat my words. Now I have so much time on my hand, but I have lost you. Ironic right. I didn’t know that I would only take 1 month plus to settle down in my job, I didn’t know that an engineer runs around like a mad dog trying to solve problems here and there and this is the reason why I have time on my hand, technically if there is no problem, you don’t run around like a mad dog trying to solve problems here and there, although there is still the paper work, test result, testing, reports that need to be done, not to mention the countless and endless and meaningless meetings that I need to go to.


So I really misses you a lot, sometimes in the morning when I have nothing on and in which I basically sit there staring into space, that is the time I misses you the most cause I know that is the time when you are most free. But the 6 month to wait for me to get my own transport is true, except I manage to cut it short to like 5 months. That is the period of time we argue the most, I am stupid and idiotic for arguing with you over small matters too, and I didn’t cherish you enough that time, I almost didn’t care about your feelings, your thoughts that time. It’s just that I finally come to realize the true meaning of this sentence.


Only when you lose someone do you know how important that someone is to you.


Which brings me to that night, ok, I admit, I half planned that scenario that night. I do that because I want to see how much we can endure together, how much love we had for each other. I plan this ever since the second day when you told me something, it’s just a stroke of luck what happened in the cab that I have the chance to spring this plan into action. And sadly to said, I fail badly at the last part.


I really hate to lose.


If I know what will happen on your side that night, I would never have spring this plan, for that I am really sorry but I doubt that you will ever forgive me too.


And I guess you already know this, but I am 24 this year. And I swear that it is the only lie that I ever told you.


You told me once that we will have a little bet, on who can get attached again the fastest. You told me that you think I would win, but you are so wrong. I believe that you have another guy who can make you happy, you are just that popular. So I guess that you will win this bet.


And oh by the way, I really have given up on any hope that we can be together again or anything, ever since that day you pass your phone to your mom just because I sms you.


It’s the day when I really, finally given up all hope.


But I still miss you.


How ironic can it get?


Good bye Dear.


I really love you once upon a time,


too bad we don't have the live happily ever after.”

Really Emo

I told you that I will get Emo!!!

R

Russian Chinese......It's all about the name

What is the right age to get married?


Lolx. This is funny; I never realized that I would come to a stage where I was thinking about this.


I remember when I was in secondary school, I told my mum that I going get married at 25…then she was like “Crazy ah, so young.”


Then I went army and I told my mum that I am going get married at 28….and she told me almost the same thing.


Then just recently, I told my mum I am going get married when I hit 40….and she told me, “Crazy ah, you think I can live till so long to see you get married ah.”


It was then that I realized that my mum want to see me get married. Lol. But marriage with the right woman, notice I use woman and not girl. I am 23 this year, and I somehow promised my mum that I get married in my early thirties, which mean that I got a whole of 6 years to prepare. Haha.


Now, I just step out into working life, and I won’t get married unless I fulfilled these conditions.

• My monthly pay must be 3k and above. (Achievable, I am like 75% there already.)
• I must own a car. (Achievable.)
• I must have enough CPF to buy an exec flat. (Achievable, see conditions 1)
• I must first have a long term and serious GF. (The most important condition.)
• I must have close to half a million in savings, (Hardest to achieve, but as I say, I got 6 years to do it.)

Ah, whatever, see first lo, see first lo.


Besides Remember the girl I met in 157 on my last post, I met her again. Nothing much happen. I got to know that she is a Russian Chinese, age 22. Russian Chinese means that her father is a Russian and mother is a Chinese.


She has a beautiful name, Tatyana Petrova Chew Shu Fen. Her name technically means Fairy Queen, blooming flowers or something like that.


And she doesn’t look Russian at all, maybe if you take a closer look, you might see traces of her Russian blood, which make her look exotic.


But I still never get her no. cause of the simple fact that I don’t feel like getting it. Maybe it’s her name, it has an eerie similarity to a certain girl I know and like.


So this is one chapter of my life which will not have a happy ending.


The End

Totally trying to act Blur

Stories of my life...1 chapter closed

R

Help me, I AM BEING CHASED!!!!!!!

I am being chased.


Chased by my surveyor for some drawings which I never even heard or seen before.


Chased by my site / safety foreman to sign some off form and salary adjustment form.


Chased by PUB consultant Senior Resident Engineer for the concrete cube test.


Chased by PUB consultant Clerk – of – work for some piling work undone or not done correctly, seriously I don’t know which.


Chased by my some of my not – too – impatient friends to update my blog.


Chased by some of my not – too – horny friends to go Thai Disco.


Chased by my boss and his wife to get my driving license back.


Chased by practically 20% of my female colleagues to get my driving license back so that I can fetch them back from work without them taking the mini bus. Basically my head office is run by all female staff except for 1 HR male. My site office is a different story, all Bangladeshi, china, Vietnam and india males. Sad, sad, and people keep on asking me why I like to go back head office so much. Laughs. Anyway I go back head office for work related matters. Don’t anyhow think.


And the worst chase of all.


Chased by none other than my dear Sheryl to get attached once again.


Girl, it’s not that I don’t want to get attached, it’s that no girls want me leh.


And I could have sworn that when I type this, I could hear her voice ringing above my head, “What about that K-box girl that you have been exchanging SmS so frequently.”


Actually this conversation really takes place before. It’s kind of like an overdue residue that makes me keep on repeating her words in my mind. Sometimes it’s funny how the mind works. You simply can’t remember something important your boss tells you just minutes ago, but some unimportant, stupid, trivial stuff on some random conversation that you had likes months ago, you remember it as fresh as if you had that conversation just minutes ago.


And you know the worst part of me? Maybe other guys too, but for the first time, I am going to write something about me. Not just about my work and everyday life, but something about me. Whenever I have a Gf or I met some girls that I like, I can remember all my conversations with them, right down to the funny noise they make. Provided that I am awake and paying attention and it’s not like 2 A.M. or 3 A.M in the morning and I am like half asleep or worse, fully asleep and still on the phone. Happen twice.


And now the problem comes in, I can remember all this, but the important stuff my boss or some other important big shot or even some random passerby A tells me, I tend to forget almost immediately. You can imagine the trouble this little problem costs me.


If only I can swap the scenarios around. Forget everything Gf or some girls I like says, and remember everything my boss says. But the thing is, every time I remember what the girl likes to eat, wear, hear or watch without her reminding me, it send her into a very good mood, joyous to some extent. And every time she is in a bad mood (PMS maybe); I can use whatever I remember to brighten her day. And the best thing is I don’t need to drop hints on what she wants on birthday, valentine day, anniversary and practically every day, I can just use what I remember as her favorites stuff and buy that for her. Of course, dropping hints once in a while helps too.


So you see the predicament I am in, which one to forget, which one to remember.


So, to solve the problem, I buy a note book. Problem solved.


Anyway, on Friday when I was on the bus 157 from Adam road back to Jurong at around 7:15 P.M., I did a very bad thing and I am still feeling sorry about it. It goes this way. I was sitting in front of 1 guy, 1 girl. It seems that the guy is trying to chase the girl, with him flirting with her every 5 minutes, and I can also tell that the girl is like super put off, maybe PMS that day?


Not that I am an expert flirter or anything, but those things that guy said irritates me also. It is simply the lamest thing that any guy could say to any girl. Things like you know how much I cares for you? ( OMG!!!), you know how well I treat my EX? (And he goes on listing out a list of stuffs that he do for his Ex. OMG!!! Just die for the sake of society) and many more which I can’t list out for this Family Blog. (I didn’t just type that.)


Basically after listening to him for like 30 minutes, (I got to salute the girl for not slapping him and asking him to shut up) I got so fed up that I was thinking of turning around and punching the guy. It was then I realize that I got my pack of poker cards in my bag and I never really practice much of my magic ever since I break up with my Ex. Why not use this chance?
I turn around, look right into the girl’s eyes, and this is what I tell her, word to word.


“Hi, you must be bored stiff by this guy sitting next to you. Mind if you ask him to be quiet while I show you some of my magic tricks?”


Lol, and that girl was so shocked that she stare at me at first, than she break into a smile and turn over, ask the guy to stop talking and look back at me. By that time, I was feeling so nervous and rows of sweat were pouring down my back. And that guy was like staring daggers at me, and I was like, shit, why do I even bother. But it was too late to back down and the magician inside me takes over.


Needless to said, I was successful in the 3 tricks I show her, and for the next 20 minutes or so, the guy took a backseat while the girl chatted with me. (She was so impressed by my magic and maybe also, that I saved her from that guy) And guess what, she moved over to my seat when that old auntie got off. (Anyway the old auntie and the 2 school kids standing beside me were also impressed, but that guy was not impressed by my trick. Hard to understand why. Lolx.)


Anyway, we talk till I got off at my stop, and frankly to said, I never get her no. I never pass her my no too, scared later that guy take my no. and threaten me or anything. It was fun though, and maybe the next time I can get to her alone. But I am pretty sure of one thing, I totally played that guy out, I don’t think that the guy has anymore chance with that girl anymore.


And for that, I am going to say something.


Sorry but tough luck, Sucker.


And you are that lame.

Little not so great Magician

Am i Lame too?

R

Long Lost Blog, Trust and Da Vinci?

I found my old blog.

The one with only 2 post.

Lolx.

Link is here.

http://rave.blog.com/

Pple who are lazy to click on the link, let me copy what i have written. Beware, its going to be a very very long wall of text.

Its all about TRUST
Brought this up with some of my friends.

Ever wonder why you are in this world? Ever wonder what if the world you are living in now is not the real world? Ever wonder if you are simply the dream of someone else in another parallel world who wakes up when u die? How you know whether the matrix is real or fiction? perhaps we are really living in the world of the matrix, perhaps the movie is sent by morpheous to warn us. Ha. that sounds so stupid, but there is a chance it could be real, cause how many of us really understand what is going on around us? Have you ever sit up on the bed at night and wonder what is the real meaning of life?

Well let me tell you, the real meaning of life is nothing but make up of five letters. "TRUST"

Trust is wat makes up the very foundation of our lifes, of our world, of everything we know and had came to belive.
Lets make a example, why is a cat call a cat? why is it not call a dog? That's because Adam wanted to call it a cat, and we trust him, we belive that a cat is call a cat. And Sir Issac Newton, he discover gravity. Yah, thats wat everybody say, but before he discover gravity, gravity has been with us since the first light came onto this world. So before Sir Newton discover Gravity, what do people name gravity? Why do we name it "GRAVITY" Simple. Thats because we believe in Sir Issac Newton, so we believe that it is name Gravity. We trust Sir Issac Newton and so we never doubt him when he told us that it is call Gravity.
there are so many things that can be used as an example. Another one. You know who your parents are, but are they really your parents? They may have carried away the wrong baby when they leave the hospital (This kind of situation do happen) or they may have adopt you at birth. There may be thousands of secret behind your birth, but why do you believe so deeply that they are your true parents? Cause you trust them, cause you believe in them.
And one more thing. Have you ever wondered what created this universe? Most of us may answered GOD. But wait, who created GOD? Most of us may have answered "God has being here since the beginning of time, he is the ultimate father" But wait again. when is the beginning of time, and what happen before the beginning of time? My friend once told me about the train theory which i find it quite interesting. Take for instance, the MRT. It is make up of cabin and cabin until it reaches the control cabin. Den it stop and thats where the whole line stops. But i don quite agree with it. Someone must have built the control cabin, and someone must have ask someone to build the control cabin, the list can go on and on and on forever. There is always an link, an unbroken chain. But why do most people believe that God created the universe. Thats cause we believe in wat our religion say. So you see, it all goes back to trust again.
Yah and all those mass cult sucide. Take for example the Red dragon cult from japan (Tink so, forget the name liao). They mass sucide so they can go to a heaven on mars which is inhabited by Red dragons. Yah, we may laugh at their foolishness. But what if they are really in a heaven inhabited by Red Dragons. They are dead, they cant tell us where they are, and no one can confirm if they had or had not went to the heaven inhabited by Reds Dragons. But why we assume that they are foolish to believe in a heaven inhabited by red dragons? Cause in our teachings, we only learnt about Hell and heaven where God and satan are. We trust our forefathers that this is the only 2 place where a soul could go. So u see, it all goes back down to trust again.
And one more thing, those mass cult suciders could really be living in a heaven inhabited by Red Dragons. U never know.
So all in all, i believe that the basic foundation of life is all about TRUST. TRUST is the very bare foundation of our soul. without our trust, there will be no us.


Da vinci mania
Disclaimer: what is say below is by no means a prejudice, bias or insult to any religion. It is just my thought and you can choose to ignore it if you wan.
Ok, about the story. Jesus got married and had his bloodlines living among us. So what is the big deal about it? why is there so many christian and catholics so upset? In case they haven notice, that story is a fiction and if your faith is that strong, you should not wavier. But to me, i think that there is some truth in it,however obsolute. Cause yes, jesus is the son of the Holy father, God. But when God sent down his beloved son, he sent him through a virgin human/mortal womb. Yes, virgin but still a mortal womb. That makes him a mortal like u and me but blessed by the almighty God(that's why he can perform miracles). About him marrying, i don wan to discuss about it, as i find discussing it kind ofdumb. It happens ages before we were born, who cares if he got married as long as he lead us to salvation.And one more thing. I believe that the way to heaven is not by jesus, yes not by him, but by what he preaches. Accepting jesus is not enough.I mean u can accept him and still rape, rob,murder, do u still go to heaven? The way to heaven is to follow what he preaches and most importantly, repent all your wrongdoings.I do believe that there is some truth in wat the Davinci Code is trying to tell us. No one is so daring to write such a novel, even though it is fiction,without some facts backing him.
"Power is when all accept you and none challengeyou"
When Emperor Contantinse is in the height ofpower, none dared obstruct him, he unifly christianity to sodifly his base of power and of course, form the council of Nicaea and become Head of it. Who dared say 1 when he say 2? So you can never tell if he did changed the bible to even better sodifly his power. I am saying all this because i dont agree with those christians who protest and wans to boycott this movie. I mean this is just a movie, if u keep on protesting, where is your faith?And to tell u all something, (Pls read disclamer b4 proceeding) some christians are really stubborn,they dont believe in anything except Christianity.Example. i was having this conservation with a christian friend.
Me: I am a buddhist, but if i see christ descendingfrom heaven, i will still admit him as God. I believeu will too.
Friend: yeah.
Me: But what if one day u see Goddess of Mercydescending in front of u?
Friend: i will treat her/him as Satan.
See, this conservation really happens with me and one of my friends. I knoe not all christians are so stubborn, i knoe some who became my best friends. But some of them are too stubborn and headstrong in their belief. One of them even approahed me in the early morning of seven am and try to peach to me about God and even say that my buddhist things are something that Satan use to carry me away from the one true God. WTF! my belief is that, u can believe in watever God as long as they don teach you the wrong things. Having ten gods to look after you is definetly better than only one god. They say that jesus is the only way to heaven, than wat abt the muslims and hindus? is there no malays and indians in heaven?is heaven monopolised by the Ang Mohs and Chinese? Yah, and tat guy who preached to me told me that america and bill gates is so rich cause he and the nation believe in the True God. I was planning to ask him y did the hurricane hit america if God is protecting them? How come phillipines whose main religion is christainity is so poor? how come japan whose population 99% don believe in christianity is so strong and rich?I believe in all god, hindus, muslim, buddhist,japanese god, greek and yes even christainity.They are all up there looking after us and teachingus the good things. It just up to us to decide whoto belive.
Again pls read the disclamer.

Wow, super long wall of text. Lolx.

Long Lost RAVE

What a LONG LONG LONG POST!!!

R

Being Nice to girls, and I don't mean it.

I got it.


I finally got it.


Thanks to one of my camp mate inspiring blog posts, I finally got it.


Being too nice is a weakness.


At least in a relationship, being too nice is a weakness. I can’t believe how long it took for me to realize my mistake.


Hakim warned me about it.


Chris warned me about it.


Heck, even Sheryl, my mom and almost everyone warned me about it.


And it took me a blog post to realize it.


Lolx, really, which girl would want a nice boyfriend? They can go, ohhh, I want a guy that treat me nicely, that love me for what I am and blah blah blah. In the end, the nice one takes a backseat to the more rowdy one. The one that brings them on swing, clubs, fast car rides, all night drinking, fights and everything that are positively un-nice. And when the relationship fails, the nice guy comes into the picture again, the girl will flock to him, and cries out all her problem and the nice guy will stay by her side patiently and listen to her. And guess what, the cycle repeats itself again. Soon she will find another rowdy guy and the nice guy took another backseat again, while faithfully waiting for her.


That’s the cycle of trap. You know that the nice guy is always going be there for you, he is going to say “yes” to all your whimper and request. You can expect the entire possible outcome that is going to happen because you know that he is going to adhere to your entire little request. Now you think where is the fun in this kind of relationship?


And sometimes, just to test how he cares about you, just to have a little fun, you started to mention about all your Ex, about guys that wanted you, about all the nice things and wild stuff that other guys did for you or to you. All in the bid to see a little tinge of green, but the nice guy not affected at all and goes like he doesn’t care about your past, and because he understand and trust you. And you will be going, “Aw, why like this, no fun at all.”


And you said all the nice guys are dead or married.


Look around you, isn’t there a guy who is patiently waiting for you. That guy may not have the charisma, money and looks of the guy who has you in his arms now. But he understands, and truly cares for you. Always willing to stay by your side, listen to all your sad stories with an understanding smile and at the end of everything, gives you a pat on your head. All in the name just to comfort you, asking for nothing in return, maybe a little smile, hug from you and that’s enough.


But no, after all the talks, all the comforting words that you managed to squeeze out from Mr. Nice, a few words from Mr. Rowdy and you go swinging back into his arms again, leaving Mr. Nice on the backseat again.


Welcome to the real world.


Who likes a boyfriend that is too nice, it makes a boring relationship.


Nice guy will never become good boyfriend materials. Stop kidding yourself. They can only be good friends material.


A relationship is based on knowing when to said “No” and on knowing where to draw the line between giving in to your the other half and the time where you put firm your stand.


All nice guys are not dead; they are being destroyed and molded into another type of personality. Into the type of guys who you always like to be with.


Really, thanks for adding another Mr. Rowdy into this world.


And a few more pictures of me…..cause audience requested so.

Aaron's last day in Singapore. (When will it be mine?)

Mr. Nice Guy

Maybe, Somehow, Perhaps

R

Valentine Day Post Match Briefing......

Valentine day has come and past.


Nope.


This particular post is not going about how I spent valentine day alone and so on. And in case you are wondering, I never spent valentine day alone. I spent it with my Ns friends, my poly friends and my family.


I don’t like valentine day also (I said this not because I have no special one to spend it with me, before any of you guys out there mistook my meaning.), the reason being that every valentine day spent with my special one cost me a bomb, and I am not rich by the way either.


Ok, I lied about the cost me a bomb part.


I always pride myself on being able to set up the most romantic scenario without spending a lot of money, (Which means asking a lot of friends to help out and getting free labor out of them.) the gift is another matter.


But I normally look at my other friends and the way they forked out money for their special one night in one year and, just put it this way, charities organization would gladly accept them as life time members if they would put in ¾ of the amount they spent during valentine day.


Anyway I have gotten some feedback about my blog, (View No. 1) some are saying that this blog typically describe my life but in a kind of out of the world way. In layman term, this blog is just the same as all the other blog out there that describe and talk about their life and feelings. But mine manage to add in flavor and spice in my entry that made reading my blog not a bore.


Quite true, I fall asleep reading blogs that goes like this.


“Ytd mummy went out and brought me a dress / shoe / game console, den I go back and log in and see dear dear online. So we talk and talk and talk until mommy as me go eat dinner. Went to “Blah Blah Blah” rest for dinner, I love the chilli crab…Crap……Crap……Crap…….ok, enough of blogging for today, love u lots, dear for today. Muacks.”


And that’s the reason I swear to myself never to write a blog like this, of course unless I want to cure someone / anybody of sleeping disorder.


(View No. 2) But some said that my blog is a halfway standard, it’s not witty like it seems and it shows no true personality. It seems like a big rojak that just I just mix together and tries to pass it off as a blog. And the way of writing is totally different in the first part of the blog and the later part. It is just like the average joe, hovering somewhere along the line of anonymous, nowhere near greatness, yet not lousy too.


I agree too, because I still haven’t found my real personality yet. Regarding the part about the first half of this blog method of writing and the second half method of writing is different, it’s because I am still in my emo state when I started this blog, so my first few post is all very emoish posts. Halfway through, I snap out of my emo state, so that’s the reason why the method of writing greatly differs.


Technically this is the summary of views that I received.


So now I have a small favor to ask from u guys / girls out there.


Do u agree with view No. 1 or View No. 2?


Drop me a tag, or leave me a comment.


Best of all, and I prefer it this way, send me a msn to rave_dragonreborn@hotmail.com


Thks.

I shall try my best not to unleash my full mental rage at you.
Hell hath no fury like R scorned.

R

The worst word that you can said to anybody including me.

Do you guys / girls out there know the worst 3 letter words that you can say to anybody?


No?


Why?


I thought the answer is so obvious.


Wait, before I give you the answer, how many of you guys / girls think that it’s the sentence “I love you” Too bad you all are wrong. I did mention that it is a 3 LETTER WORD, not a 3 WORD SENTENCE. Well, to me, I love you is ranked as the top 3 of the worst thing you can say to anybody. Well, that’s a post for another day.


And now the worst 3 letter word that you can say to anybody is the word “BUT”


As long as but is in the sentence, nothing good will come out of the sentence. Try it yourself if you don’t believe me. Better yet, let me give you some example.


Example No. 1
Mum, I love your cooking but (your fish is too salty, Mike’s mum cook better, you should have cook more meat, I don’t like the soup) Try it yourself, put in any sentence behind and all of it will hurt your mum or criticize her cooking in one way or another. (Anyway the sentence you put must make sense.)


Example No. 2
I love you but….(Now you try putting in a sentence that will make it sounds good.)
See, no matter what kind of sentence you link, as long as there is but in the middle, it will always sound bad.


“I like your blog design but your entries sucks.”


“I love your ass but her ass is tighter.”


“I would love to go the dance with you but that hunk over there beat you to it.”


“You are sexy but can you shave your armpit hair.”


“I know I promise to go to the movies with you but my mum called and I need to go my grand ma’s house for dinner.” (Sounds Familiar)


Try it yourself; don’t take my word for it.


If you manage to make any sentence sounds good,


I will give you a reward,


But…..

P.S. Happy Birthday Sakura!!!!

Great Guy / Great Boyfriend
But……
R

You want photos, I give u photos!!! K Box Outing anyway.

Ok, to those that keep on saying I never upload photos anymore in my blog.

I am going prove you wrong. Lolx.

Beware.



We are all here. R and all his good buddies.

K box @ suntec for Nicole pre wedding celebration

The characters


Our bride to be....Nicole!!!



Forever Cutesy Pie....Cheng Cheng


Not avaliable for comment.......Dearest Jasmine


My Wonderful, Big Sister.......Claudi Jie


Married and not Avaliable.......Sweet Sweet Pauline


And of course me........

Hakim has no solo shot but never mind, i shall include him in all my other photos.


Chinese New Year Gong Xi Gong Xi with the 2 bouncers at the back


Group photo taken by One of the staff working there


Another Group Photo


Ok, now for some of my own shot, lolx.


Taken in a place where i would prefer that you guys / girls dont know

A failed attempt to convert the "Kira" pose.......(Macross Frontier...Ranka Lee)

Me with my cousin, my youngest cousin, haven even go pri 1 yet. Our age gap is like 17 years....

Another Shot.

Ok, that's all the pictures i going upload.

Bye.

Pictures and more Pictures

I love K box

R